This past week I talked with a woman who made more money in one week than she did in a month. I spoke with another woman who is stepping into her true calling and accepting help to take that huge leap. I spoke with a man who had given thousands of dollars to others, and when it was his time to ask for help, nobody was there.
All of these scenarios have one thing in common. Love. Loving yourself first, and getting crystal clear on who you are and what you need.
Money can’t buy you love, but many people try to do that.
You see it in sales conversations when someone lowers their rates so someone will accept them. They do it to feel good, instead of thinking about it from a business standpoint, as well as the transformation of the client.
You see this issue when people are not willing to ask for help when they need it. They are willing to give everything, and not receive, and at one point, they are completely broke wondering what happened.
One of the things that I have many clients do when starting to work with me is to ask for help of many kinds. And most often it will be extremely uncomfortable at first. It might be money, helping around the house, and other things that directly relate to that particular person. The reason is that if you do not know how to receive the support and love from someone else, you do not have the muscles to receive money.
Money can’t buy you love. But it will give you every single lesson to learn to love yourself.
