Wishing you all a healthy, safe and beautiful day. As someone who helps people go through massive transformation and change to align to their unique soul calling, I took a month to do the same. I remember the day. I felt a deep resonance with a post from a mentor of mine on facebook. He was talking about the process of a caterpillar and the transformation it experiences to become a butterfly. At one point in the chrysalis, it becomes cosmic soup. It creates new imaginal cells and needs to integrate a new way of being. I dutifully looked up the cycle of a butterfly and noted the 28 days needed for this cycle. I felt myself in this deep process, and the confusion of that cosmic soup!
Once the 28 days were up, I thought I needed more time. More transformation, more deep digging and processing. I got caught in my own trap. Clearing, clearing, clearing…until my body couldn’t take it anymore. Stop! my body cried. It needed to see more light, to plant new seeds, to believe in the easy path even if I could not see it.
Those who work with me or take my programs know that my big thing is “ease and grace.” Take the easy path. Release the challenge quickly. It’s not what usually happens in many spiritual programs. It tends to be more difficult and challenging.
I decided to start working privately with a shamanic coach to help me see the things that I know, but wasn’t seeing. She is one who believes in doing what is light and easy. So, I knew it was a great fit.
It’s why working with others is a powerful process. We all need support. Right away, I saw how I was getting in my own way. I had been confusing some wisdom with that for others. I was healing so many on the dream plane, that I didn’t have the stamina to do it for myself. With her help I shifted to dreaming for myself, as well as helping those I serve.
I’m telling you all this story, because we have all experienced something like this these last months. This new normal we are hearing about is forcing all of us to see what needs to shift, AND more importantly, to claim what we truly want with this one precious life.
What lights you up? Jazzes you? What comes so naturally that it is like breathing? Where did your busy schedule in the past eclipse those fun, small moments in your life? What really matters to you? What are you tolerating? What will set your creative soul free?
These are questions we are answering right now. It’s important to realize that to find these answers, we also need to set time to dream, create, rest, and be willing to pivot in a direction that may look nebulous but which brings freedom and ultimate joy.
Yes, there are many sad things happening out there now. Some of you are experiencing deep loss. Yet we are resilient. We can get through this. It takes one step at a time. A choice to seek a new path. Find a new answer. Live a different life. Ask for support. Receive.
Over the past two days I have had the butterfly analogy show up again for others. One woman saw a card she pulled with a butterfly, and was sad that she was still a caterpillar, or not ready for soaring and creating. She was stuck in an old pattern and couldn’t see what was in front of her.
Another person who is grieving some loss said she was going to stay in a cocoon for the summer and go deep, cry, and release. After our session she realized that she is that butterfly now. With new choices. Yes, there is still grieving, but now there is also more dreaming and possibilities being unleashed.
Transformation is a powerful process. Wherever we are is where we need to be. What we need to see is that it doesn’t have to go months and months in pain, sorrow and misery.
It’s time to plant new seeds. Be the dreamweaver of your life. Rise up from where you are, and ask new questions. You got this. We all do.
Together we shall rise. And in the process teach others that we are unstoppable. We may rest when needed, but we continue.
Next month is one of new beginnings, heart’s desire, love, family, friends, communication, and purpose. I will talk more on that in June.
Are you at a point where you would like private guidance, journeys, shamanic wisdom, and clear action steps to help you shift into your best self faster and with more ease? Are you on the precipice of bringing in your bigger dream and want the support to take it to the next soul stirring level? Or maybe you are needing deep and nurturing healing and soul recovery? For the past 8 years I have specialized in helping people find and take the easy path to either complete or partial re-invention while accessing their heart’s desire. It’s my thing and I love it. It’s like breathing for me. It jazzes me to no end to see people’s lives transform.
I will be starting to take more new clients in June. Also, I will begin adding many new offerings to honor the times and help people activate their deep soul wisdom. If you would like to talk about private mentoring, go to the contact page and get on my calendar to talk.
We are in times of deep transformation. You were born strong for times like these. One day at a time. Find the support you need. We are not meant to do this alone.
You are meant to be the butterfly.